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Monday, 21 October 2013

16 Things You Should Do at the Start of Every Work Day

I found these tips from a friend. Its good as a reminder to myself and to people who have start working. Sometimes your attitude to your work change the way your action. If you said that that you have a lot of work, your boss is not understanding, so your life will be like that. Blaming people all the time. Everything will make you mad. But if you look at it in a positive way, insyaAllah.. you will do everything you can to your work! These tips are not only for working people, but for the students too!

May Allah bless you.
Happy reading!
^_^



16 Things You Should Do at the Start of Every Work Day
The first few hours of the work day can have a significant effect on your level of productivity over the following eight—so it’s important you have a morning routine that sets you up for success. With the help of career and workplace experts Lynn Taylor, David Shindler, Michael Kerr, Anita Attridge, Alexandra Levit and Michael “Dr. Woody” Woodward, I compiled a list of 16 things all workers should do when they get to work each morning.

1.  Arrive on time.
This may be obvious to most people—but some don’t realize that showing up late can not only leave a bad impression, but also throw off your entire day. “Getting in on time or a little early helps your mindset for the day and helps promote a feeling of accomplishment,” says Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert and author of Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant.

2.  Take a deep breath and meditate.
“Literally,” says Michael Kerr, an international business speaker, author and president of Humor at Work. “And do something to focus in on the here and now.” Many people come into work harried because they don’t leave enough time at home to deal with “home stuff,” he says, “and then they’ve barely survived another horrendously stressful commute, and then they dive into the madness.” Slowing down, taking a moment to pause, and creating a routine around centering yourself can work wonders, he adds.

Michael “Dr. Woody” Woodward, PhD, organizational psychologist and author of The YOU Plan, says after the deep breath, give yourself a few minutes to meditate and get settled in.“This is a good way to set the tone of the day,” he says. “Don’t allow yourself to be bum rushed by frantic co-workers lost in their own confusion. It’s not unusual to wake up to a long backlog of e-mails just screaming for your attention. The challenge is taking a moment for yourself before diving head first into your day.” He says there is a tremendous power in mediation when it comes to settling your mind. "Starting off your day right is really about setting your own tone and meditation is a great way to begin.”

3.  Eat a proper breakfast.
“Breakfast truly is the most important meal of the day to help us down the path of not only being more physically fit, but also to have the mental energy needed to tackle your workday,” Kerr says.

4.  Start each day with a clean slate.
You may have to attend to projects or discussions that rolled over from the previous afternoon—but try to treat each day as a fresh one, says David Shindler, founder of The Employability Hub and author of Learning to Leap. “Leave any crap from yesterday behind, tap into what’s happening at the outset of the day, get organized and ready or hit the ground running, if that’s what is needed,” he says.

5.  Don't be moody.
You’ll want to pay attention to your mood and be aware of its effect on others. “First and last thing in the day is when emotional intelligence can have the greatest impact,” Shindler says. So if you’re not a “morning person,” try to suck it up and have a positive attitude when you arrive at the office. Grab a second or third cup of coffee, if that’s what it takes.

Kerr agrees. “Your first hour at work can set your ‘attitude barometer’ for the rest of the day, so from a purely emotional point of view, I think it’s an important part of the day,” he says. “One morning grump can infect an entire team and put everyone on the wrong footing.”

6.  Organize your day.
The first hour of the work day is the best time to assess priorities and to focus on what you absolutely need to accomplish, Kerr says. “Too many people get distracted first thing in the morning with unimportant activities such as diving right into their morass of e-mail, when there may be a whole host of more important issues that need dealing with.” Make a to-do list, or update the one you made the previous day, and try to stick to it. However, if your boss has an urgent need, then it’s OK re-shuffle your priorities within reason, Taylor adds.

Anita Attridge, a career and executive coach with the Five O’Clock Club, a career coaching organization, says when you prepare your morning to-do list, determine what must be done today and what can be completed tomorrow, and prioritize accordingly. “Also determine your peak working time and plan your schedule accordingly,” she says. “Use your peak time each morning to do the most important tasks.”

7.  Be present.
Even if you’re not a morning person, you need to be awake when you get the office. Especially if you’re in a leadership position, it’s critical to be present, mentally and physically, and to communicate. “One of the biggest office pet peeves I hear from employees is about how their immediate supervisor just blows by them in the morning without so much as a smile,” Kerr says. “Taking the time to connect with your team members is essential, and doing the seemingly small things--making eye contact, smiling, asking them about their night, and checking in on what they may need help with--helps you as a leader take the pulse of the team, and helps set the tone for all the employees.”

8.  Check in with your colleagues.
“A quick 5 to 10 minute team huddle can also be an effective way for many people to start their day,” Kerr says. Make it a short meeting, with no chairs, have everyone share their top goal for the day, and share any critical information the rest of the team absolutely needs to know, he says. “Doing the huddles helps people focus and more importantly, connects everyone with the team. And by sharing your goals for the day publicly, the odds of achieving them rise substantially.”

9.  Organize your workspace.
Clearing off the desk and creating a neat workspace sets a tone for the rest of the day, says Alexandra Levit, the author of Blind Spots: The 10 Business Myths You Can’t Afford to Believe on Your New Path to Success. It can also help avoid confusion. “While most communications are through e-mails and texts, if your boss or co-worker stopped by looking for you and left a sticky note about a last-minute meeting occurring in ten minutes, and it's sitting on a mound of mail or papers, you're already behind the eight ball,” Taylor says. “Also, for many, it's difficult to think clearly, easy to forget important reminders, and just plain stressful if you feel you're fighting the battle and the tornado of mail or paper is winning.” Ideally, you’d clear whatever you can out the night before so you can have a fresh start before you even turn on your computer in the morning. But if not, make sure clearing your desk takes precedence over things like checking e-mails and chatting with co-workers in the morning.

10.  Remind yourself of your core purpose at work.
“As corny or as trite as this may sound, I’d suggest that you take a moment each morning to remind yourself of your core purpose at work,” Kerr says. Connecting to a sense of purpose is one of the most powerful motivators there is, and taking just a moment each day to reconnect to what truly matters in your job and what you are ultimately trying to achieve and for whom, can help you feel more motivated and help you focus on the priority areas in your work.

11.  Don't be distracted by your inbox.
This one is difficult for most people—but the experts agree that you shouldn’t check your e-mail first thing in the morning. If you do, only read and respond to messages that are urgent. "Priority-scan your inbox,” Taylor says. “Not all e-mails were created equal. Hone your ability to quickly sift the wheat from the chaff and address what must be answered on an urgent basis.” Attridge agrees. “Only respond immediately to the urgent messages so that you control your morning activities.” There will be time during the day to respond to the less urgent e-mails.

Why must you put off checking e-mails? “For far too many people, e-mail and the web can serve as huge timewasters and distracters, particularly in the morning,” Kerr says. “Once you start checking e-mails, it’s a click away from watching the funny video someone forwarded you, which then sucks you into the abyss: checking the sports scores on line, the news headlines, the stocks, et cetera, and before you know it you’ve been watching a cat play the drums for twenty minutes and, like a poorly planned Oscars ceremony, your entire schedule is already thrown off before you’ve even begun your day.”

12.  Listen to your voicemail.
Most people jump on the computer and ignore their phone. “While office voicemail is indeed becoming antiquated as people rely more on personal cell phones, Blackberrys and e-mail, some people do leave voice messages, and if you ignore them, you could miss something important,” Levit says.

13.  Place important calls and send urgent e-mails.
If you know you need to get in touch with someone that day, place the call or send the e-mail first thing in the morning. If you wait until midday, there’s a greater chance you won’t hear back before you leave the office. “There's nothing more frustrating that trying to complete something and not having access or answers from people you need because your day time hours were lost on other matters,” Taylor says. “If you have your questions ready and your e-mails fired off during early peak hours, by the end of the day you should have what you need.”

14.  Take advantage of your cleared mind.
“Many people feel that their brains function best in the morning, and that morning is when they are most creative and productive,” Kerr says. “Consider whether you are making the best use of your brainpower and plan ‘high brain’ activities in the morning.”

15.  Mix things up from time to time.
Some people like order and are habitual—but others like variety and change. “For them, my advice is to shake things up occasionally by sitting somewhere different (if you have the choice) so you get a different perspective; go walkabout first thing and be visible to people in other spaces, both from a social point of view and as an alternative to picking up the phone,” Shindler says. “Small things that can energize you from the off and can positively impact you and the office dynamics.”

16.  Plan a mid-morning break.“This is the time to assess where you and take time to revitalize yourself so that you can keep your momentum going,” Attridge says.

Thursday, 21 June 2012

Why Complicate Life?


Life is not complicated at all..
You just have to be patient in whatever you do..
Go with the flow.. but with purpose and determination..
Leave the rest to Allah ^___^

Let it go...


Sunday, 17 June 2012

Tuesday, 15 May 2012

Half Glass

Look at the half glass full instead of the half glass empty and have faith that Allah can open ways for you. Once you see the positive side, it will become much easier to accept the situation and work towards improving it.

Sunday, 13 May 2012

“When you choose Allah over everything else, He will most certainly take care of you. So when you are given two choices, remember Allah and choose wisely. Choose truth over falsehood, piety over desire, mercy over harshness, justice over oppression, and choose Him over yourself… then sit back and watch how beautifully Allah chooses for you and runs the affairs of your life ever so beautifully.”

Friday, 7 January 2011

A time for reflection


By JOANNE KEK


As a woman turns 27, she pauses to pen a letter to her 17-year-old self.

GOSH, isn’t the world your oyster. At 17, you’re still a gawky kid, nervous and unsure about going to the big city. You’ll eventually turn out to be a pretty good-looking pearl, even though you don’t know it yet.

It will take a couple of years before you finally start to feel comfortable in your own skin. In time, you’ll get there, and you’ll be surprised to know that you don’t need to change very much to feel that way.

You will leave the boy you’re currently with and, one Valentine’s day shortly thereafter, another boy will call, wake you up from an afternoon nap and ask you to meet him at his car. Then he’ll produce a Valentine’s day card (which you still keep), and you’ll fall so, so head over heels in love. Some of your best memories of your early 20s? He’ll be in them.

You will learn what makes a good relationship. But you’ll also learn that people change, and they come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. That boy was a reason or a season – and one day, he will leave. You’ll cry, you will question, but you’ll be okay.

As you grow older, you will realise that a lot of what mum told you is true. And dad? He will mellow and eventually even work on trying to get you married! Spend time with mum ... because you won’t have much time left. You will be surprised to realise that you’ll wonder what she would say or do at key milestones in your life.

Career? Scrap the pharmacist/doctor bit, babe. You definitely didn’t see this coming – but you really have a passion for numbers, and a surprising attention to detail, even though you are still messy and don’t clean or organise very well.

Remember that family trumps all. When the shit hits the fan, they’ll be the ones helping you clean up. Make friends with everyone, but keep selected ones close.

Say less and listen more. Show compassion; pass less judgment; pause to think and reflect.

Do everything you want to do – yes, even entering a beauty contest. And don’t chicken out once you’ve been shortlisted as a finalist because you are young, and you’ve got nothing to lose.

I suppose I should let you know that you won’t be married at your ideal age of 24. In fact, I’m not even sure if you’ll be married before you hit the big 30. But you’ll be okay. You have to be.

Instead of waiting for someone to buy you a home, you will buy one yourself. Although you’ll be fiercely independent, remember to retain what makes you a woman – compassion, grace, bouts of tears and, of course, class.

And, there is nothing some sleep and a long hot bath cannot improve.

Happy birthday, gal. From your older self, who always wants to be some parts woman, and many parts girl.

Sunday, 3 January 2010

Hari ni baca surah Hud. Terasa best lak meaning dia. Ni aku saje copy & paste maksud dia kat sini [smile].

Surah Hud: Ayat 111-123

111) Dan sesungguhnya kepada masing2 (mereka yg berselisih itu) pastu TuhanMu akan menyempurnakan dengan cukup, (balasan) pekerjaan mereka. Sesungguhnya dia Maha Mengetahui apa yg kamu kerjakan.

112) Maka tetaplah kamu pada jalan yg benar, sebagaimana diperintahkan kpdmu dan (juga) org yg telah bertaubat beserta kamu dan jgnlah kamu melampaui batas. Sesungguhnya Dia Maha Melihat apa yg kamu kerjakan.

113) Dan jgnlah kamu cenderung kpd org2 yg zalim yg menyebabkan kamu disentuh api neraka, dan sekali2 kamu tiada mempunyai seorang penolong pun selain daripada Allah, kemudian kamu tidak akan diberi pertolongan.

114) Dan dirikanlah solat itu pada kedua2 tepi siang (pagi dan petang) dan pd bahagian permualaan drp mlm. Sesunggunya perbuatan2 yg baik itu menghapuskan (dosa) perbuatan2 yg buruk. Itulah peringatan bg org2 yg ingat.

115) Dan bersabarlah, kerana sesungguhnya Allah tiada mensia2kan pahala org2 yg berbuat kebaikan.

116) Maka mengapa tidak ada dr umat2 yg sbl kamu org2 yg mempunyai keutamaan yg melarang dpd (mengerjakan) kerosakan di muka bumi, kecuali sebahagian kecil di atr org2 yg tlh Kami selamatkan di atr mereka, dan org2 yg zalim hanya mementingkan kenikmatan yg mewah yg ada pd mereka, dan mereka adalah org2 yg berdosa.

117) Dan Tuhanmu sekali2 tidak akan membinasakan negeri2 scr zalim, sdg penduduknya org2 yg berbuat kebaikan.

118) Jikalau Tuhanmu mengkehendaki, tentu Dia mjadikan manusia umat yg satu, ttp mereka sentiasa berselisih pendapat,

119) kecuali org2 yg diberi rahmat oleh Tuhanmu. Dan utk itulah Allah menciptakan mereka. Kalimat Tuhanmu (keputusan-Nya) tlh disempurnakan: "Sesungguhnya aku akan memenuhi neraka Jahanam dgn jin dan dgn manusia (yg derhaka) semuanya."

120) Dan semua kisah dr rasul2 Kami ceritakan kpdmu, ialah kisah2 yg dengannya Kami teguhkan hatimu; dan dlm surah ini tlh dtg kpdmu kebenaran serta pengajaran dan peringatan bg org2 yg beriman.

121) Dan katakanlah kpd org2 yg tidak beriman: "Berbuatlah manurut kemampuanmu; sesungguhnya Kami pun berbuat (pula).

122) Dan tunggulah (akibat perbuatanmu); sesungguhnya kami pun menunggu (pula)."

123) Dan kepunyaan Allahlah apa yg ghaib di langit dan di bumi dan kpd-Nyalah dikembalikan urusan2 semuanya, maka sembahlah Dia, dan bertawakallah kpdNYa. Dan sekali2 Tuhanmu tidak lalai dr apa yg kamu kerjakan.

Wednesday, 2 December 2009

In this story.. the HERO is YOU!

Yeay!! Finally!! I got it! The translation of Hero song by Safarii.
I kinda understand what it means but not all of it.
And when i got the real translation, indeed, its what I've imagine.
SO happy today!

And to all my friends, lets create our own heroic story in this lifetime!
As they said in this song.. 'In this story.. the HERO is YOU!'


Safarii – Hero

Lyrics: Safarii
Music: Safarii

The sun is too bright, I can’t walk forward with my head up
I hear laughter echoing but the city streets feel lonely somehow
I wonder when I’ll be as strong and gentle as you
Though I try to hide it, an emptiness remains in my heart

*The truth is I have no self-confidence, I’m a pitiful weakling
Today is so hard I want to cry, beneath my fake smile I cry…
I don’t need to be strong, don’t need to pretend or lie to myself
Because the Hero of this story is me
I try to smile and act happy to fit in with others
I can’t say what I really feel, my reflection is a lie
It was easy to be the same as everyone, I was scared of being alone
I saw you fading in the distance, a Hero who faced adversity
But then I also realized this one thing about myself

(Repeat*)

I know everything changes, I’ll keep searching for answers my whole life
Tomorrow was more important than today, I was forward and self-centered
I didn’t know what true strength was but I put all my effort into pretending
And I hurt others and in the process ended up hurting myself
It’s okay if I’m a coward or if I’m uncool or selfish, it doesn’t matter
First, I’ll start from a place I know and get rid of the clouds in my heart
I’m the Hero of my story, you’re the Hero of your story, so is everyone else
See? It gets easier if you think of it like that

The truth is I have no self-confidence, I’m a pitiful weakling
Today is so hard I want to cry, beneath my fake smile I cry…
I’m not cool enough to save someone else
But there’s only one of me in the world

(Repeat*)

Saturday, 29 August 2009

Best 3 Hours in Ramadhan

FIRST HOUR:
First hour after Salat Al fajr
Our prophet(PBUH) said : the one whoever prays al fajr in Jamaah
– and set after prayer to read Athkaar until sunrise, then he prays 2 rakateen
- Its rewarded as accomplishing haj and umra

SECOND HOUR:
Last hour before sunset (Iftaar)
Our prayers in this hour are all granted as Prophet said. So we should never waste it by watching TV or preparing food

THIRD HOUR:
Late night hours – Sahoor time
Its preferred to utilize this hour in Istigfar and praying

Tuesday, 26 May 2009

Mari bersabar :)

Di bawah ini list beberapa ayat yang mencantumkan kata 'Sabar' yang dikutip dari sini

2. Al Baqarah

45. Jadikanlah sabar dan shalat sebagai penolongmu. Dan sesungguhnya yang demikian itu sungguh berat, kecuali bagi orang-orang yang khusyu',

2. Al Baqarah

153. Hai orang-orang yang beriman, jadikanlah sabar dan shalat sebagai penolongmu, sesungguhnya Allah beserta orang-orang yang sabar.

2. Al Baqarah

155. Dan sungguh akan Kami berikan cobaan kepadamu, dengan sedikit ketakutan, kelaparan, kekurangan harta, jiwa dan buah-buahan. Dan berikanlah berita gembira kepada orang-orang yang sabar.

8. Al Anfaal

66. Sekarang Allah telah meringankan kepadamu dan dia telah mengetahui bahwa padamu ada kelemahan. Maka jika ada diantaramu seratus orang yang sabar, niscaya mereka akan dapat mengalahkan dua ratus orang kafir; dan jika diantaramu ada seribu orang (yang sabar), niscaya mereka akan dapat mengalahkan dua ribu orang, dengan seizin Allah. Dan Allah beserta orang-orang yang sabar.

32. As Sajdah

24. Dan Kami jadikan di antara mereka itu pemimpin-pemimpin yang memberi petunjuk dengan perintah Kami ketika mereka sabar. Dan adalah mereka meyakini ayat-ayat Kami.

33. Al Ahzab

35. Sesungguhnya laki-laki dan perempuan yang muslim, laki-laki dan perempuan yang mukmin, laki-laki dan perempuan yang tetap dalam ketaatannya, laki-laki dan perempuan yang benar, laki-laki dan perempuan yang sabar, laki-laki dan perempuan yang khusyuk, laki-laki dan perempuan yang bersedekah, laki-laki dan perempuan yang berpuasa, laki-laki dan perempuan yang memelihara kehormatannya, laki-laki dan perempuan yang banyak menyebut (nama) Allah, Allah telah menyediakan untuk mereka ampunan dan pahala yang besar.

31. Luqman

31. Tidakkah kamu memperhatikan bahwa sesungguhnya kapal itu berlayar di laut dengan nikmat Allah, supaya diperlihatkan-Nya kepadamu sebahagian dari tanda-tanda (kekuasaan)-Nya. Sesungguhnya pada yang demikian itu benar-benar terdapat tanda-tanda bagi semua orang yang sangat sabar lagi banyak bersyukur.

13. Ar Ra'd

22. Dan orang-orang yang sabar karena mencari keridhaan Tuhannya, mendirikan shalat, dan menafkahkan sebagian rezki yang Kami berikan kepada mereka, secara sembunyi atau terang-terangan serta menolak kejahatan dengan kebaikan; orang-orang itulah yang mendapat tempat kesudahan (yang baik),

70. Al Ma´aarij

5. Maka bersabarlah kamu dengan sabar yang baik.

3. Ali 'Imran

17. (yaitu) orang-orang yang sabar, yang benar, yang tetap taat, yang menafkahkan hartanya (di jalan Allah), dan yang memohon ampun di waktu sahur.

41. Fushshilat

35. Sifat-sifat yang baik itu tidak dianugerahkan melainkan kepada orang-orang yang sabar dan tidak dianugerahkan melainkan kepada orang-orang yang mempunyai keuntungan yang besar

Wednesday, 20 May 2009

Taubat yang syaratnya gagal dipenuhi

oleh TGNA


Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. yang bermaksud: "Barangsiapa yang beristighfar dengan sebanyak-banyaknya, Allah SWT akan bebaskan mereka daripada sebarang kesusahan, akan mendapat rezeki yang tidak diduga daripada sumber itu serta mendapat jalan penyelesaian daripada sebarang kerunsingan. "

Orang yang tidak ditimpa runsing dalam kehidupannya, adalah merupakan suatu nikmat daripada Allah SWT.

Berapa ramai manusia yang memiliki harta kekayaan yang banyak tetapi tidak sunyi daripada dilanda runsing. Kekadang kehidupan seseorang sederhana sahaja tetapi mereka aman daripada sebarang kerunsingan jiwa dan fikirannya.

Jika berikhtiar menghilangkan kerunsingan dengan bukan jalan Allah SWT, seperti dengan berhibur yang melampau, maka usaha itu seperti menghilangkan gatal dengan menggaru akan hilang gatal sejenak. Dengan menggaru boleh menyebabkan calar berdarah bertukar jadi kudis.

Apabila kuman yang menyebabkan kegatalan aktif semula, maka gatal akan muncul kembali malah lebih parah lagi dengan munculnya kudis akibat luka digaru.

Fadilat beristighfar ialah Allah SWT akan memberi jalan penyelesaian daripada sebarang kesempitan, sama ada kesulitan hidup di dunia berbentuk kebendaan atau pemikiran dan perasaan.

Fadilatnya lagi ialah dikurniakan rezeki daripada sumber yang tidak diduga. Lebih istimewa lagi jika rezeki datang mecurah pada saat amat diperlukan.

Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w. lagi yang bermaksud: "Sesungguhnya aku seorang Nabi memohon ampun dosa (istighfar) kepada Allah SWT, setiap hari sebanyak 70 kali."

Meskipun Nabi s.a.w. maksum (dikawal) dosa oleh Allah SWT, namun baginda tetap memohon ampun sebanyak 70 kali saban hari.

Apakah tujuan Nabi s.a.w. mohon ampun kepada Allah SWT dalam keadaan maksum. Tujuannya ialah untuk mentarbiyah umatnya supaya tidak mengabaikan istighfar mohon supaya Tuhan ampuni dosanya.

Jika Nabi s.a.w. yang maksum beristighfar 70 kali, umatnya sebagai insan biasa yang bergelumang dosa, secara logiknya mestilah mohon ampun kepada Allah SWT setiap hari lebih daripada yang dilakukan oleh Nabi s.a.w. itu.

Bagi Nabi s.a.w. yang maksum beristighfar itu bukanlah untuk mohon ampun dosa, tetapi istighfar Nabi s.a.w. ialah mohon ampun daripada perkara yang dikira silap.

Ini kerana amalan baik bagi orang yang jujur (abrar) itu, masih dikira sesuatu yang buruk bagi golongan 'muqorrobin' seperti golongan para nabi itu.

Contohnya, jika melakukan solat fardu didahului dan diiringi dengan solat rawatib, juga mendirikan solat malam tahjud empat rakaat dan tiga rakaat witir, jika boleh kekalkan sudah dikira termasuk golongan 'abrar'.

Tetapi sekadar itu tidak layak bagi golongan para anbiya, ia dikira berdosa bagi golongn muqarrabin jika ibadatnya sekadar itu.

Adapun istighfar yang sering diucapkan oleh Nabi s.a.w. seperti berikut: "Allahummaghfirli ma qaddamtu wama akhkhartu wama asrartu wama a'alantu wama Anta a'alamu bihi minni wa Antal muqaddimu wa Antal muakhkhir wa Anta 'ala kulli syai-in qadir."

Ia bermaksud: �Wahai Tuhan, ampunilah dosaku yang terdahulu dan dosa kemudian yang belum dilakukan, dosa yang kulakukan secara sulit tersembunyi dan dosa yang kulakukan secara terbuka, sebanyak mana yang Engkau ketahui. Sesungguhnya atas Engkau Yang Berkuasa penuh atas segala sesuatu."

Seorang ulama bernama Fudhul bin Akhyar berkata mengenai istighfar katanya: "Bahawa minta ampun dalam keadaan tidak menghentikan daripada berbuat dosa itu adalah taubat seorang pendusta."

Apabila seseorang beristighfar bererti dia mohon ampun kepada Allah SWT, apa ertinya dia mohon ampun kalau terus melakukan dosa maksiat.

Sedangkan syarat taubat ialah insaf dan menyesal, bertekad untuk tidak melakukannya lagi. Sangat pembohong bagi seorang yang mohon ampun kepada Tuhan, tetapi tidak berhasrat uantuk meninggalkan dosa dan menyesalinya.

Perbuatan itu umpama orang solat dengan memakai kain yang tercemar dengan najis, setelah dia sedar lalu digantinya dengan kain baru, sayangnya kain baru itu adalah kain curi.

Dia tinggalkan dosa diganti dengan dosa yang lain pula. Apakah ertinya itu jika dia tidak sedar sedang menipu diri sendiri?

Seorang wali besar yang masyhur dalam sejarah Islam, seorang wanita bernama Rabi'ah Al-'Adawiyyah berkata: "Sesungguhnya minta ampun bukan sekadar kerana berdosa, tetapi istighfar kerana kesalahan minta ampun daripada taubat yang tidak memenuhi syarat taubat itu."

Ertinya adalah dianggap satu dosa bagi orang minta ampun (istighfar) dalam keadaan dia tetap melakukan dosa, kerana sepatutnya dia menyesal serta berazam untuk tidak lakukannya lagi.

Beristighfar dalam keadaan demikian bererti dia sedang berdusta, seolah-olah mempermain-main dengan Allah SWT dengan istilah taubat.

Bertaubat dalam suasana demikian lebih buruk daripada melakukan dosa yang sebenar, kerana taubat seperti itu merupakan suatu dosa yang perlu bertaubat semula kerana bertaubat yang menyalahi syarat taubat. Inilah taubat manusia pendusta terhadap Tuhan.

Sunday, 13 July 2008

It's SO simple being a Muslim

COOL, article!
I just read this article yesterday bout a marriage over the phone.
Yeah! It's that simple. Not only in marriage, even in living your life, travelling, praying, etc.. That's why I'm glad to be a Muslim.
Proud to be a Muslim! [Smile]

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"I do" as Muslim couple marry by telephone


KOLKATA, India (Reuters) - An Indian Muslim couple exchanged wedding vows by telephone after the groom, who lives abroad, said he did not have money to return home to get married, a cleric said on Friday.

Muslim clerics married Irin Biswas, 18, to Safikul Islam, who is employed as a labour supervisor in Kuwait.

The entire village in Murshidabad, West Bengal, watched as the clerics put a mobile phone on speaker mode, enabling them to hear the wedding vows.

"They said qubul (I do) thrice and the marriage was complete," Maulana Alamgir, a cleric who solemnised the marriage said by telephone. He said modern ceremony was not against Islamic laws.

The bride, in endless interviews to the local media, said she had seen Safikul only once, when he was home for holidays.

"I have never spoken to him but now I speak to him daily," Irin told reporters.
Safikul is due to meet his wife for the first time in October this year when he eventually comes home for holidays, family members said.

(Reporting by Sujoy Dhar; Editing by Bappa Majumdar)
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ttp://blogs.reuters.com/in/ )

Thursday, 10 April 2008

Itu la.. Orang dah kata JANGAN!

Ha.. ni aku jumpa kat MSN.

12 things you didn't know about alcohol
  1. It damages your LONG TERM memory
  2. There is no cure for a hangover
  3. It makes you FAT
  4. It's more ADDICTIVE than you think
  5. It destroys your looks
  6. It can makes mental health problems worse
  7. It causes tunnel vision
  8. It affects you when you are older
  9. It can lead to diabetes
  10. It can cause man-boobs
  11. It is a leading cause of cancer
  12. It takes around 30 units to knock you out

Friday, 29 February 2008

Its leap day!


MasyaAllah, today we get an extra day!
Wow!
Hehe...

Here is what you can do...

Thursday, 1 November 2007

RESEARCH IS WHAT I AM DOING WHEN I DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM DOING.
-- WERNER VON BRAUN
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Entahlah.. kekadang rasa jelas dgn apa yg apa yg sedang aku lakukan. Kekadang terus blur. Gelap. Lampu mentol terbakar. -- My brain is having a short circuit! Hohoho...

Tuesday, 2 October 2007

Lagi Sepuluh Hari...

PESAN JUNJUNGAN BESAR NABI MUHAMMAD (SELAWAT DAN SALAM KEATAS BAGINDA)ADALAH MALAM QADAR BERLAKU PADA SATU MALAM DARIPADA 10 MALAM TERAKHIR (HARI GANJIL) BULAN RAMADHAN.

PETUA OLEH IMAM GHAZALI DAN LAIN-LAIN ULAMA’ UNTUK CARI MENCARI MALAM LAILATUL QADAR

JIKA AWAL RAMADHAN JATUH PADA HARI:

I) AHAD ATAU RABU - MALAM QADAR DIJANGKA BERLAKU PADA MALAM 29 RAMADHAN;

II) ISNIN - MALAM QADAR DIJANGKA BERLAKU PADA MALAM 21 RAMADHAN;

III) SELASA ATAU JUMAAT- MALAM QADAR DIJANGKA BERLAKU PADA MALAM 27 RAMADHAN;

IV) KHAMIS - MALAM QADAR DIJANGKA BERLAKU PADA MALAM 25 RAMADHAN;

V) SABTU- MALAM QADAR DIJANGKA BERLAKU PADA MALAM 23 RAMADHAN

Kata Sheikh Abu Hassan bahawa mula dia baligh, dia sentiasa dapat menghidupkan lailatul qadar pada malam yang tepat mengikut petua diatas.

Berdasar petua di atas, insyaallah malam qadar jatuh pada malam ke 29 ramadhan bersamaan dengan malam selepas siang 2 hb November 2005.
Walau bagaimanapun, janganlah ibadat pada malam ini sahaja, carilah malam qadar pada malam-malam ganjil yang lain juga!!!!

Tanda malam Qadar ialah :

1) Malam itu tenang, tidak dingin dan tidak panas;
2) Siangnya cahaya matahari warnanya pucat;
3) Pada malam itu malaikat Jibril akan menyalami orang yang beribadat pada malam itu dan tandanya ialah kita tiba-tiba rasa sangat sayu dan kemudiannya menangis teresak-esak secara tiba-tiba.

MARILAH KITA BERAMAI-RAMAI MEMERIAHKAN SUASANA 10 MALAM TERAKHIR RAMADHAN DENGAN BERIBADAT KEPADA ALLAH SWT DENGAN IKHLAS DAN PENUH KEIMANAN, MUDAH-MUDAHAN KITA DAPAT KURNIAAN ALLAH YANG KELEBIHANNYA PAHALANYA MELEBIHI - 1000 BULAN ATAU 83 TAHUN UMUR KITA.

p/s: Pertemukan aku dgnNya. Ameen.

Monday, 12 June 2006

Be Strong Dear Me

Sometimes it’s kinda hard to accept things you don't like.
I am really not sure whether I’m doing it right or wrong.
My mind right now it just confused.
My heart is so painful.
I felt so down inside.
Don’t know what to do.
Please, help me, Allah…
I seek for your forgiveness.

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This is a song from One Litre of Tears. It touches my heart.


Only Human
Lyrics: Osanai Mai Translation: Jonathan Wu

On the opposite coast of sadness
is something called a smile

On the opposite coast of sadness
is something called a smile
But before we can go there,
is there something we’re waiting for?

In order to chase our dreams, we can’t have a reason to run away
We’ve got to go, to that far away summer’s day

If we find it tomorrow, we can’t sigh
Because like a boat that opposes the stream
we have to walk straight on

In a place worn down by sadness
something called a miracle, is waiting
Yet we are still searching
for the sunflower that grows at the end of spring

The warrior who awaits the morning light
before he can clasp it with red nails, his tears glitter and fall

Even if we’ve grown used to loneliness
only relying on the light of the moon
We have to fly away with featherless wing
just go foward, just a little further

As the rainclouds break
the wet streets sparkling
Although it brings only darkness
A powerful, powerful light
helps push us to walk on

Wednesday, 18 May 2005

The Ant Phillosophy

Got it from a friend...
Feels good after reading it. Thought wanna share with u guyz...

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Wednesday, 11 May 2005

Sebuah Penerbangan

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Bila kita akan berangkat dari alam ini ianya ibarat penerbangan ke sebuah negara

Di mana maklumat tentangnya tidak terdapat dalam sebarang brosur penerbangan, tetapi melalui Al-Quran dan Al-Hadith

Di mana penerbangan bukannya melalui Air Asia atau AirJordan, tetapi Al-Jenazah

Di mana bekalan kita bukan lagi beg seberat 23 kg, tetapi amalan yang tiada caj lebihan berat, atau tiada caj lebihan beratianya atas kesudian Pencipta kita

Di mana bajunya bukan Pierre Cardin, atau setaraf dengannya tetapi kain putih kapas

Di mana pewanginya bukan Channel atau Paco Rebone, tetapi air mawar dan cendana

Di mana pasport kita bukan Malaysia, British atau American, tetapi Al-Islam

Di mana visa kita bukan lagi sekadar 6 bulan, tetapi 'Lailaillah'

Di mana pelayannya bukan pramugari jelita, tetapi Izrail danlain-lain

Di mana layananya dalamnya bukan lagi kelas business atau ekonomi, sekadar kain yang diwangikan

Di mana destinasi mendarat bukannya KLIA, Heathrow Airport atau Jeddah International, tetapi tanah perkuburan

Di mana ruang menunggunya bukan lagi bilik air-cond dan permaidani, tetapi bilik 6 kaki dalam gelita

Di mana pegawai imegresen adalah Munkar dan Nakir, mereka hanya memeriksa samada kita layak ke destinasi yang diidamkan

Di mana tidak perlu pegawai kastam dan alat pengesan

Di mana lapangan terbang transit adalah Al-Barzakh

Di mana destinasi terakhir samada Syurga yang mengalir sungai dibawahnya atau Neraka Jahannam

Penerbangan ini tidak dinyatakan nilainya.. Ianya percuma, jadi simpanan (savings) anda tidak akan dihabiskan

Penerbangan ini tidak akan dirampas, oleh itu tidak perlu bimbang

Sajian tidak akan disediakan, oleh itu tak perlu risaukan masalah alergi atau halal-haram makanan

Jangan risaukan delays, penerbangan ini sentiasa tepat waktunya, ia berangkat dan tiba tepat pada masanya

Jangan fikirkan tentang hiburan dalam penerbangan, anda telah hilang selera bersuka-ria

Jangan bimbang tentang tempahan, ianya telah siap ditempah sejak anda disenyawakan di dalam rahim ibu

Ya! Berita Baik!!
Jangan bimbangkan siapa yang duduk di sebelah anda
Anda adalah satu-satunya penumpang penerbangan ini
Oleh itu bergembiralah selagi boleh! dan sekiranya anda boleh!
Hanya ingat!!
Penerbangan ini datang tanpa 'amaran'
Cuma perlu ingat!

Nama anda telah ditempah untuk penerbangan

ADAKAH KITA TELAH BERSEDIA UNTUK BERANGKAT???

p/s: dipetik dari fwd e-mail